Chapter 10: Wisdom
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We can make all the
right choices and live a life of wisdom for 40, 50, 60 years. But, make one
mistake, and you can be known as a fool amongst men for making one foolish choice. Regardless of how
wise you are, you may never escape the perception of the one foolish thing that you did. This
is another reminder that we can never be perfect and as Christians we should
exemplify this notion. Because we are far from perfect, the antithesis of the
Gospel is perfection. We are broken, hence why we needed Christ to die on the
cross to cover our sins. There was no plan B. We couldn't do it. We should share our weaknesses with
others and exalt God who makes us strong in our weaknesses. A wise man will do
this, share his burdens and confront his sins openly with friends. This will
help draw us to goodness, kindness, mercy, and grace because we don't see
ourselves (or project ourselves) as someone who is perfect and never makes
mistakes. Only a fool will say that he is without sin and never says that he is
on fire (when he is in fact, on fire). This is something I struggled with for
many years (if you read back through my blog I mention struggling with deceit,
lying, manipulation, etc.) I wanted to project that I had everything going
perfectly for me. I was very outspoken about not lying, cheating, watching
pornography or being sinful. I wouldn't say it, but I would project it in how I
did things, my responses to other people who struggled with sinful behavior, I
would act concerned for them, but I never admitted to the same struggles, I
just let them talk to me and I would portray myself as superman by never
admitting to the same issues. I would act like I knew the answer to the problem
and point them in the right direction, knowing that I myself couldn't escape
the same sin they were stuck in. I was a fool (and still am) but I learned
through pain and suffering that God never meant for us to try to battle the sin
that is within us on our own. We can't beat it. We must seek His word, the
church, community, close friends, family, etc. and expose our hearts to them and
seek healing through hard work and prayer. It isn't easy, but it is necessary
for a healthy life.
Those who have been
given the gift of patience are truly blessed by God. If we can maintain a calm
demeanor through turmoil, it will be very beneficial in life. Not only for our
emotional state of being, but for those around us who know they can come to us
with anything and they will not be met with shouting and angry behavior. | "Seek first to understand, then to be understood." Dr. Steven Covey |This is one of the most important aspects of remaining calm in a situation of
high-stress. If we can try and understand where the other person is coming from
we can better see the why behind the action. It is not our job to judge the
person, we must judge the action. However, we cannot judge the action until we
have the context around it. If we think that passing judgment is something
that is done in an instant, we are wrong and we shouldn't be doing that. You must know a person very well
before you try to call out the sin that is in their life. Otherwise, you will
do a lot of damage that will more than likely never be restored. Foolishness is
thinking that we are wise when we are not, we lack judgment. We are all
sinners, regardless of whether not you are saved, and without Christ all of us
would perish and spend an eternity absent God. Yes, we are saved by grace and
Christ takes our punishment on the cross, but we are still sinners. We will
continue to sin until the day we die and become perfect in Him.
Until Christ
returns, we should learn to speak wisely, not foolishly. We must learn that
regardless of how much information we obtain that we are still broken people in
a fallen world, we should never hoist ourselves up or pat ourselves on the
back. Don't be consumed by our own foolishness by believing the lie that we
are, at our core, good people. (It will leave you broken and depressed or will
turn you into a liar because you'll be forced to fake it.) We are selfish,
greedy, and evil people who are in desperate need of a savior. I look at
myself, from the outside, I probably look like a good person to most people. I
attend church, I am a leader in a Bible study, I pray, I read scripture, I
encourage others, I long to live a life that praises and glorifies God | Yet, I
know my heart. I hear my thoughts everyday | I know where my eyes wander and
have wandered. I know that my thoughts need to be cleansed and many of my
memories are filled with sinful behavior. I know that when I am driving I judge
people in my head. I know that my body has been tainted by sin through taking
God's creation and perverting it. I judge others in my mind and speak to my ego
about how much better I am than them. These are real things that I struggle
with every day. Yet, I love the Lord and even more than that, He loves me. Far beyond any realization of love that I know or will ever be able to understand. I
know this and I believe it with all my heart, body and soul. At the end of my life, I will bring my filthy rags before the King and He will say: I see nothing but
the cross. Christ paid the price for all the sin I have done, I am doing, and
will do. He is enough.
Dear Lord, I pray that you will continue to draw me closer through my shortcomings. Please don't turn away from me or relinquish your presence for even a second, I am lost without Your presence. Let me be a light in a dark world and let me expose my darkness through repentance and prayer. Show me how to overcome my struggles and honor You. Amen.
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