Chapter 6: Practical Warnings:
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Do not fall prey to
the idea that you cannot seek assistance from those you have aided in the past.
Do not allow pride to keep you from admitting you are in need and seek out
those who may be able to help. Are we not all needy before God? (Or, we should be
but don't admit it?) Save yourself from death by seeking help. If you are
drowning, cry out for help! Do not ponder whether you should do it, you are
only ensuring your demise. A lazy man sits and waits for things to happen, be a
man of action! Consider one of the smallest creatures that creep along the
ground, the ant. They do not sit and wait, they do not lie down when there is
working to be done, they are not curling up for a nice nap, they toil night and
day until they need to rest. If you find comfort in being lazy and seek to do
nothing with your days, you will lose your self-worth and be consumed by
seeking ultimate comfort.
The wicked will use
their words to break down others, they will look at them with judgment and
walk away from those they shun behind their backs. Their heart is cold and only
brings discord amongst people. (When I consider my own actions surrounding my words,
facial expressions, etc. I know that I have a lot to learn and work towards. I
certainly use tones and inflections that derive from disrespect or sarcasm
towards others, I break others down through jokes or within my head through
thoughts, I have ammunition ready should someone call me out [whether in love
or hate] about my sin. I hope that I’m able to grow in this area. Conscious
actions towards goals of giving my heart over to Christ more and more.) You
can become so broken that healing is almost impossible, so misguided, and in
such a place of pride that there is little hope for you, thankfully, God can
step in and save us (as he has saved all Christians who love the Lord) regardless of our brokenness.
Our Lord Hates:
- Haughty Eyes - Don't look down on others in pride.
- Lying Tongue - Keep your words pure and forthright.
- Hands that Shed Innocent Blood - Don't throw others into the fire.
- Heart of Wickedness - Do not devise evil towards others in hate.
- A False Witness - Don't make things up or create absurd accusations.
- Sower of Discord - Don't seek out innocent, vulnerable hearts and take advantage of them.
See these things and
implement them into your heart, mind, and soul. Dwell on them and see how God
will work through you.
Warnings Against
Adultery:
Prepare yourself
prior to marriage by learning to control your thoughts, emotions, and pride. Do
not allow yourself to walk down the path of adultery, which doesn't start when
you begin to engage in activity with another woman other than your wife, it starts
with lust in your mind and heart. Be captivated by your wife, not by others.
Practice complimenting your wife, not other women. Discover how she feels loved
and does those things, regardless of whether you enjoy doing them! (Anything that brings joy to your wife, you should want to do for her sake, not yours.) It isn't about you,
it is about loving your wife the way she feels loved. (Obviously, review
Scripture to ensure things she desires are not out-of-step with the Gospel.
However, the odds of that are extremely slim. Don't attempt to use it as an
excuse.) Avoid speaking to the silver-tongued woman who will attempt to lure
you into a bed filled with regret. There is punishment for any man who sleeps
with another man’s wife and there will be punishment for the man who betrays
his covenant with the Lord. It is nonsensical to have an affair, it rips apart
the very foundation that marriage is created upon, don't do it, there will be
no joy nor happiness found in the end, only death. Choose to love your wife
again, put down the distractions (phone, TV, sports, computer, iPad, gym, kids, food,
whatever your vice is) and seek her beauty with passion and show her you love
her more than anything else around you. Be direct in your words and do not let
your eyes stray from hers. Captivate your wife with your love for her through
actions that Christ places within our hearts. Love her as Christ loved the
church and give yourself up for her every day.
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